Published in The Sex Doctor Is In·PinnedMember-onlyThe Sex Doctor is In - Five Reasons to Read EroticaDecades ago, when I began my bachelor’s degree in health education, we had a slogan. “Do it for the health of it!” As young students in the program, we snickered at the “do it” while we focused on health. …Sex4 min readSex4 min read
Nov 14, 2022Member-onlyHow do Women get Purple Sex Alignment? A Fresh Mindset — Dr. J. | Donna Jennings, Ph.D.Purple Sex Alignment? What is It? Purple sex alignment is both a process and an outcome. If you’re reading, you are already working a shift in your perspective. You are receptive to hearing something new. It’s like when folks realize they want something different in the bedroom. They explore and read about new topics. …Sexuality3 min readSexuality3 min read
Jul 1, 2022Member-onlySex Conversation Starters to Improve Intimacy in Relationships — Dr. J. | Donna Jennings, Ph.D.What is a sex conversation starter? Sometimes people just don’t know how to begin a conversation related to sex. That is so understandable. Those conversations are intimate and vulnerable. We don’t exactly learn conversation skills at school or at home, much less about discussing anything with sexual content. Without formal…Sex5 min readSex5 min read
Jun 15, 2022Member-onlyJumpstart Writing Sex: A Fresh Mindset, Perspective, and Craft Tools — Dr. J. | Donna Jennings, Ph.D.In writing sex, whether in scenes or threaded throughout your story, to get maximum impact, it takes a type of sex education most people never get. As a writer, you may be a natural-born storyteller and have intuited lots of information in your world about your characters. …Writing Tips5 min readWriting Tips5 min read
Jun 13, 2022Member-onlyA Disappointing Sex Search in Google Underlines Poor Sex Education — Dr. J. | Donna Jennings, Ph.D.My sex search on Google in preparation for my weekly Twitter Spaces Content in The Sexuality Space provided frustration. I wanted to learn what people want to know about sex. I discovered one interesting article by Dr. Chris Fulton: The Most Frequently Searched Sex Questions in the US. I loved…Sex3 min readSex3 min read
May 20, 2022Member-onlyTransform Your Sex Writing to Give Characters Great Sex with Five Elements — Dr. J. AuthorTo Transform your sex writing, know yourself. Writers: Is this You? I can’t write sex scenes. Read on.Writing Tips6 min readWriting Tips6 min read
Published in The Sex Doctor Is In·May 10, 2022Member-onlyMove the Sex Talk to Sex Conversations: A Powerful First Step — Dr. J.Sex conversations? Sex talk? What’s in a word or a phrase? For some, those phrases can stop you in your tracks. When you read “sex talk,” did it pull you back to your young self, who was watching a parent struggle to provide you with needed information? Or were you…Sex4 min readSex4 min read
Jan 4, 2022Member-onlyCan you Place Your Sexuality Center Stage for a Minute or Even an Hour for Your Sexual Wellbeing? — Dr. J.New Mindset New Results. — Sometimes it is hard to admit we are sexual beings with a need for sexual wellness. Our culture, institutions, family, friends have made us feel like we need to hide that part of us. That makes it difficult for us to take time for our sexual self. Frankly, I’ve had…Self Improvement3 min readSelf Improvement3 min read
Oct 25, 2021Member-onlyFinding Your Space in the World if You Want Your Sexuality AcknowledgedLet’s expand your energy. The simple words humbled me. I resonated with the emotional break in her voice. My heart fluttered. “This is the first space I’ve found that includes me and appreciates my sexuality.” It was what I hoped to create. It was my intent. …Sexuality4 min readSexuality4 min read
Published in The Sex Doctor Is In·Sep 20, 2021Member-onlyOur Learned Behaviors and Beliefs Get in the Way of Great SexWhat does it take to get out of your own way? — Sexual premise: We are individuals who experience sexuality for ourselves. We can choose to share our sexuality. When we do and invite another into that space, we share a dance of pleasure which may get us great sex. I entered a Twitter space and heard a discussion about men and…Sex4 min readSex4 min read