As a Sex Educator, What I Wish Every Author Knew about Writing Sex in Scenes

I hear you think it’s the hardest thing to write.

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Sex. S-E-X. Sex.

I’m pretty sure a file cabinet in your head popped open and everything you don’t want to come out did. That’s because we lock down our ideas and notions about sex. In the US, this is understandable. Shame and…