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Can you Place Your Sexuality Center Stage for a Minute or Even an Hour for Your Sexual Wellbeing? — Dr. J.
New Mindset New Results.
Sometimes it is hard to admit we are sexual beings with a need for sexual wellness. Our culture, institutions, family, friends have made us feel like we need to hide that part of us. That makes it difficult for us to take time for our sexual self.
Frankly, I’ve had enough.
Others have subjected my sexuality career to constructed rules and regulations. They relegated my erotic writing to late-night locations, the back room, and the “shhhh place.” Sex itself takes a back seat to something considered more worthwhile. Sexuality professionals have been expected to step aside or step down for some topic deemed more important. Notice it was all about movement. Folks working in the sexuality field move to make others happy. It has infuriated me and it’s time to stop.
In the year 2022, I’m not moving those ways anymore. I’m stepping up.
That’s my new mindset. I’m excited to see the results of this change.
I choose not only to shine the light on sexual goodness as a wellness item, but I’m doing it in broad daylight.
