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Most often doing sexuality work is about learning and discovering who you are. When you’ve been in a relationship without this as part of the foundation, you may experience those cracks. I’ve found that if there is true connection and commitment to discovery, relationships can grow.

My favorite author on this subject is Dr. David Schnarch. I trained with him for years and love his sexuality work because it talks about integrity. Several titles you might enjoy are Passionate Marriage: Keeping Love and Intimacy Alive in Committed Relationships; Intimacy and Desire: Awaken the Passion in Your Relationship. Any of his works are good.

Relationship work is about holding onto yourself in the face of differences and allowing your mind and emotion to work together. If you check out these books, let me know what you think.

D.