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The Erotic Ramblings of a Sex Doctor

Dr. J. | Donna Jennings, Ph.D.
7 min readAug 27, 2019
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Where do I find my erotica ideas?

My friends laugh, even though it’s their favorite question to ask me while shaking their heads.

“Everywhere. Anywhere.”

Since most people assume that erotica writers have done every single thing they have written, I have to set the record straight regarding my writing. Are you ready? The answer is no. Given my current age and flexibility, well, no.

But in my mind, I sure have.

Aging is a tricky process. In my thinking, I’m a good 29–30. I’m a fun and adventurous woman. Well, I am still those things, but my body tells me otherwise. Like yesterday’s hike. My knees aren’t what they used to be. I work to adapt to whatever my body does not give me. In a previous post, I commented on how menopause changed sexuality for me. Writing helped me with hormonal depletions surrounding desire.

Since writing helped me, I focused on “Creating Your Boudoir Bibliotherapy” to help you with sex fun in your life. As I continue to hone my writing craft, I become clearer on other things. I love finding the spark that becomes the underpinning for an erotic story.

Writing taught me I hold on to the sensations of every marvelous orgasm across my lifetime. I store them in my orgasm library and then use…

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Dr. J. | Donna Jennings, Ph.D.
Dr. J. | Donna Jennings, Ph.D.

Written by Dr. J. | Donna Jennings, Ph.D.

From Retired Sex Therapist (she/her) 2 Erotic/Romance Writer 2 Editor. Covering Sexuality, Writing/Creativity & Erotica. http://drjauthor.com/quicklinks/

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